Make a woman interested in you

What can you do when you are obsessed with someone but the other person does not even know this or realizes it or is simply not interested? This seems to happen all the time. While you learning Japanese from a Japanese woman. I adore and like her very much. I asked her out twice for lunch, but she turned me down on both occasions. Each time, she found an excuse. I'm so fustrated. Do you think she dislikes me or was she simply too busy? Should I continue to ask her out or should I stay away from her? What should I do? I keep thinking about her everyday and would love to have my first Japanese girlfriend. Help!"

• Let us give the object of your desire the benefit of doubt. Since you asked only twice, may be she was indeed busy. The best way to approach this issue is to remind her gently that your invitation for a lunch still stands and you would rather let her pick the day this time so that she can make it.
• Does she dislike you? I do not think there is enough evidence to think so. I see no reason for her to dislike you - after all she is happy to be your teacher. The bigger question is Does she like you and does she like you the way you like her.
• In my opinion, while lunch is a good idea and it will help you understand her as a person better, but it may still not be the way to find out if she is interested in the kind of relationship that you have in mind. The solution to this problem: A step-by-step program for seduction. I say step-by-step because the first step will be if she is a good candidate for your seduction. If not, you can abandon the program at that stage and go back to having her as your language teacher.

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