I have been thinking of the explanation that Jennifer Aniston gave why Brad Pitt left her for Angelina Jolie. This wouldn't be big news except for the fact that while Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have found tremendous happiness, Jen has struggled. Her relationships with John Mayer and Vince Vaughn did not work out. It seems that the only places she finds love is in the movies. How ironical!

Millions of people still wonder why did Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston divorce. The question has intrigued me even more considering that Brad Pitt is so happy with Angelina Jolie and not only has chosen not to get married but has had children with her.

In an earlier interview with Vanity Fair Jennifer Aniston shared some reasons for the divorce but we now have some more information. She says in an interview:

"I think it's laziness. I think a good relationship is about collaboration. I think you just need to talk to each other. Say what you need. Say what you want. That way it's not threatening. You just need to say, 'This is important to me.' Don't expect your mate to read your mind...I think that's because it's just instinctual as a woman to be the caretaker of your home. Women complain that men don't do enough, but it's your own fault. You train your man to do nothing. You can't blame someone for not knowing what his or her job should be if you don't ask for it right off the bat...I think it's important to have closure in any relationship that ends - from a romantic relationship to a friendship. You should always have a sense of clarity at the end and know why it began and why it ended. You need that in your life to move cleanly into your next phase."

Looks like I am getting some insights into why Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston divorced.

Like millions of other people, at one time, Brad Pitt was in love with Angie while still married to Aniston. Yeah, they called themselves Brangelina.

And no, we are not hearing it from the gossip mongers. Angelina herself admits to The Times that when her children grow up she would like them to watch the movie “Mr. & Mrs. Smith.” According to her, “Not a lot of people get to see a movie where their parents fell in love.”

Apart from the interesting title, it is also important to understand that at the time of making this film, Brad was legally married to Jennifer. In other words Brad committed adultery.

The irony is that Brad is now with his girl and they are parents to a busload of children but after dating Vince Vaughan and John Mayer, Jennifer Aniston is still single.

Jennifer Aniston John Mayer relationship

John Mayer is a very weird guy. He first abused Jessica Simpson when she followed him a like a pet and genuinely believed that he was in love with her. He dumped her like a used napkin.

Cameron Diaz also got the wrong impression that John Mayer liked her, but thankfully, she was smart enough to realize her mistake.

Then a very desperate Jennifer Aniston who has still not recovered from her divorce from Brad Pitt and that was obvious how she tried to impose herself on Vince Vaughan.

I am a big supporters of cougars dating younger men but I was not very optimistic that the relationship with John Mayer will last.

As expected, the relationship ended without a word of warning. Apparently no cheating is involved. "People are different, people have different chemistry," said Mayer. "I ended a relationship to be alone, because I don't want to waste somebody's time if something's not right."

I am sure that Aniston will definitely appreciate this. Ladies, the message here is that no matter how romantic the guy comes across as, if you impose yourself on him, eventually he will dump you, and you are the one who is going to suffer from a heartbreak, because he would have learned the tricks to do the same to another girl and get better at it.