While the mature woman dating younger man is no longer something unusual here in America, but I was surprised to see that this trend is catching up in Bollywood. Indian actress Freida Pinto (we know here through her role as Latika in the movie Slumdog Millionaire that won several Oscars), who is 24, is dating British actor (apparently he is of Indian origin) Dev Patel, who is just 19.

It also seems that this is so far neither a fling or a crush since the relationship has lasted for several months now. I am not aware of their living arrangements, but I understand that Dev lives in the United Kingdom, and Freida, who seems to travel a lot, is a resident of Mumbai, the center of the movie industry in India. I am sure this makes it very hard for this couple to have this type of long distance relationship.

I am sorry to report yet another setback to cougar dating. One of my cougar idols Kim Cattrall (52) has ended her relationship with much younger dude chef Alan Wyse (32).

No body knows what happened and I am assuming that it was not because of their age gap or his cheating with a girl his age. Some reports speculate that the couple just drifted apart for a variety of reasons after being together for as many as five years.

I know a lot of young guys likes mature women but losing your virginity to an older woman -- only Harry Potter, I mean Daniel Radcliffe, can do that.

He disclosed that although the age difference (he was 16 and it was probably illegal for the woman to do it) "wasn't ridiculous," it likely "would freak some people out."

Demi Moore, Ashton Kutcher relationship success secret

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher are excellent examples of older woman younger man relationship. That makes Demi Moore a leader of the cougars, as these women are called. But a recent interview with Vanity Fair, she was as surprised as all of us with the relationship. "If somebody would have said, 'OK, here is the prediction: You're going to meet a man 25 years old and he's going to see being with you and having your three kids as a bonus,' I would have said, 'Keep dreaming," she says.

The couple have a great relationship and also get along well with ex-husband Bruce Willis, who like Uma Thurman has been an excellent ex.

What surprised me most about the interview was that the couple wants to have children. Getting pregnant at 44 is nearly impossible without fertility treatment, but it might make sense considering that Kutcher is just 28 and has no children of his own, though he has been a good father for her three daughters.

And how does she keep looking good for her toyboy? She is one Hollywood celebrity with most cosmetic surgery.

Finally, what does it tell? That it is possible for a a couple with large age gap to have an excellent relationship and people should explore a relationship with someone younger or older if they are otherwise attracted to each other.